Sunday, March 04, 2007

The Guy in the Glass

I reached Delhi about 2 weeks back….and its been real hectic ever since. Getting up at 7 in the morning… (it’s a pain) but thanks to people around me….i do manage to get up! I usually get ready by 8 and then get online to check my mails and have my breakfast …all at the same time.. The only multi tasking I manage to do….I’ve been told that I ain’t good at that either. Then strts the torture of an hr…driving to office! Its almost 20 kms from my home….music keeps me from getting too irritated…the traffic is horrible…reminds me of Calcutta at times….I never thought I’d admit it…but I do miss Calcutta at times…the ease of reaching office….proximity to office…it was fun…but this sure is better...!

Office is very different….Calcutta mein people either worked while cribbing or did not work at all…yahaan…u can actually see people enjoy their work..and when the environment is such…u feel like wrkin as well…! My boss is a 32 yr old GM…abt 5 grades above me…I just hope I reach the level he has by the time I am 32…:) The others around are fun too…It’s all very vibrant.

How can I forget the food…the food is awesome! Especially after Calcutta ke office ka food…I will remember it with sukto and maach….I had my quota full of them!

I usually strt back at abt 6.30and reach by 7.30….the day is almost over by then…..well…that’s a normal day for me in short….

But here’s what I have been itching to put up on this space for a while….I recently happened to read a poem… It is titled “ The Guy in the Glass” here’s how it goes:

When you get what you want in your struggle for self,
And the world makes you King for a day,
Then go to the mirror and look at yourself,
And see what that guy has to say.

For it isn't your Father, or Mother, or Wife,
Who judgement upon you must pass.
The feller whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the guy staring back from the glass.

He's the feller to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you clear up to the end,
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may be like Jack Horner and "chisel" a plum,
And think you're a wonderful guy,
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum
If you can't look him straight in the eye.

You can fool the whole world down the pathway of years,
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you've cheated the guy in the glass.

Truly speaking, I got this mail in a forward….I usually do not read forwards unless I have a lot of time…I just happened to chance upon this one. Made me think…yes yet again!! What do I see when I see urself in the mirror?? Am I proud of myself…? Am I happy at what I see? Can I look into the eye of the guy standing in front of me and hold my own??

I loved the poem … made a lot of sense to me….reminded me of soo many things that I need to do…I hope I do manage to live up to then…

Turn of events in life……I’m more convinced than ever…..

Now is not for ever!!!

10 comments:

IncorrigibleV said...

hey lovely poem there...
makes a whole lot of sense
btw my first comment on ur blog i think i will comment from now on ... :P
ps: the time on ur blog is wrong...fix that

Anonymous said...

1st off... welcome bak!!! dnt u jst lv it no end tat i push u 2 write?

2ndly... dude!!! did i read u rite?! u actually say u miss kolk at times??? cummon... all d cribbin - no frens, no food, no nuffin!!! :O [shakes head in amazement]

3rdly... lurv d poem... mks sense and it just hits the nail on the head, dsnt it? i mean, u gt 1 life... cnt please everybdy. and evrybody hu is anybody to u isnt gonna b happy until u mk urself happy... :O wow... i surprise myself with my deep (and often muddled) thots...

and here's the thing... i just wanna say... u shd b proud of urself... cuz drs so many of us out here looking out 4 u and cheerin u on... tk a moment n think... u must b doing something rite to hv this support system standing by...

Gunjan Aylawadi said...

i love that i love that i love that...makes me want to pounce on the poet n giv him a tight hug...n thanku soo much for sharing that...m gonna steal it n put it up everywhere i can...without ur permission :P!!
i truly believe that watever u might do in life...smthing to please the other person or just annoy the whole world....but the only one u r ever answerable to is ur ownself!!
u know u r right only till the time till the time u r able to respect urself for watever u do!!

n bout ur life in delhi...id like to tell u smthing....on the first day of college i was asked to tell smthing unusual bout myself...n i said i think im d only person who loves traffic jams...i love to b peopled by the strangest faces n characters!!but after i had to go to gurgaon for 2 months in a row n face those debilitating terrific jams...i never said that again!! :P

but m sure d energy of saddi dilliwalahs n the dollar dreams in their eyes is contagious....n d plush offices with sexy canteens make it better!! njoi it as much as u can...coz as u say....NOW IS NOT FOREVER!!

keep writing re...i love ur posts!!

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Aww thats a beautiful poem now .. and so is the pic above it :P Wonder where u got that from??

Delhi food ... aaaaah ...

btw if u happen to go to noida sector 18 ... just try going to pizza hut there ... they make AWFUL pizzaas! i cudnt blv this was a bloody international chain!!! And their staff looks like they paid them 1/4th the normal amount and picked them up from roadside .. no am not discriminating .. but they're so unhygienic!!!
Gone are the days when i missed delhi food ... delhi's developing with its metros and stuff yeah .. but the traffic jams .. the ill-mannered drivers and road side cheapos with their eyes and tongues popping out ... gosh ...!!!

i sooo hate delhi!!!

Ok there's something for u to do ... take it as a tag ... go to the mirror .. and look at urself .. and find out 5 or even more things u love about ur body ... we managed to count three yesterday i remember ... but am sure u can find better ones :D

Sphinx said...

@vandita
thanks for commenting ...and i promise to be more regular reading ur blog too...how do I change the time???

@ mann
I love it that u push me to write....I do miss Kolkata...I miss the puchkas yaar...:(. Ain't the poem nice?? I knew u'd love it too....n hey...I am proud of myself for a few things but a few others I ain't too proud of....but here's ur answer...I can look at the mirror in the eye of the other guy and tell him...I DID THE BEST I COULD....:) And it is thanks to u and a lot of other people that I can do that!

@ Champakali Mahindra
U lvoe traffic Jams????? Am sure u wouldn't be driving....Do u even know driving...?? But hey...thanksa ton for ur comments...they are a big motivating factor...aur kisi ko ache lage na lage...2 log pucca praise karenge...Mann n u:). I never get around to saying it.....thanks for everythign Gunjan.....Ur THE FRIEND:)


@ loon gal
O Cmon....delhi is not bad...u have to come down here....The people are warm ...a lot of them are...the traffic is bad but much better than a lot of other people...the food might be unhygeinic at places...but it tastes very own...U can't compare it to London na...!! N hey...5 things....hmmm...good idea...maybe i'd do it...I dont think i can come up with 5:P. Ain't the pic cute??? I loved it....Kinda very apt...don u think?

Gunjan Aylawadi said...

hey dat made me so happy :)
n bout d praises....mine are always genuine!!

Anonymous said...

i have a message from mann... she said she couldn't make it online bcause of college but wanted me to surprise you...

"you miss kolkata or you miss the person who made kolkata interesting for you when hey were around? and i'm so proud of you for reasons best known to ourselves [:P]"

oh! and tanuj... i miss kolkata puchka's too... and love the poem by the way...

Sphinx said...

@gunj
Ur a gem Gunjan....

@Zoe...
This is indeed a surprise!! And yes...the person is a very imp reason of me missing Kolkata...Weren't the puchkas a treat??? Strangely enough....I miss a lot more than puchkas...a lot more:)

Buls said...

Hey... hahahaha... So, you miss Kolkatta??? I never ever dreamed you would say that... but then again, you made the best of the opportunity. I still remember you telling me; "Chennai isnt that bad"...
I loved the poem... One observation: you have asked questions.. what about the answers? Don't you intend to share them?

Anonymous said...

hey tanuj "teddy" kapoor... long time no c ya... kuch likh na... miss ya... :(

bt jst thot id drop in a line 2 tell ya tat i chnged my url... its now - http://www.shamannicdreams.blogspot.com/

so edit ur tags... hope 2 c ya soon... luv n prayers...